10.31.2011

Weekend photos

This weekend was a mix of everything- date nights, hanging out with friends, studying, reading, cleaning, and watching football.  We probably should have done more reading and studying, but my brain can only handle so much before I get cranky. 

Oh, and I've decided this will be recipe week.  I feel like I have tried SO many recipes (and by that I mean 3...) and I want to share them with you! Get excited. 

And... Happy Halloween! Dan and I bought some Kit Kats to celebrate.  The Halloween celebration is getting a little out of control over here. 

My Favorite place to go for date night!!

So cute and trendy. 

I know what you're thinking. That looks disgusting.  I think if I took the picture before I scarfed down half of it, that would of helped.  But when red curry chicken gets put in front of me there is NO stopping me. mmmm. 
Get excited for this recipe... coming soon..
There were some running breaks- really trying to get in all my outside runs before the winter!

Dan and I, and Ashley and Caleb babysat for the "Mini Mahls" and I loved everyyy second :)

SO cute. 
Once again.. I need to take pictures before half of the dessert is gone- Pumpkin Trifle. Recipe to come:)

10.28.2011

Gaining Strength

About two weeks ago I was running around like a crazy person.  After just getting home from a weekend away, I came face to face with a midterm that I was so not prepared to take, a dirty apartment, lots of ironing and laundry, and no plans of what we were going to eat that week.  Naturally, I got in "Stef mode" and was go go for the next three days.

Then, as God always does, I was in Bible study and we were talking about Isaiah 30 and this verse obviously stuck out:

"... in quietness and in trust shall be your strength."
Isaiah 30:15
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It was like immediate conviction.  My strength was not coming from God, my strength was coming from myself- and I was wondering why I was going crazy.

Quietness.

Trust.

That is where I get my strength from.  Quietness before Him- asking Him for stength, seeking His priorities for the day.  Trust in Him- trusting Him that I will get done everything I "need" done and trusting that His grace will be sufficient for me. 

Busy seasons are times of testing for me.  It's like God is asking me "Ok Stef, here we go again.  The pressure is on.  You have a lot to get done.  Are you going to go into control mode.. or are you going to let go and let me guide you?"  I'm hoping to try the quietness and trust method next time for my strength :)

Happy Friday!!  (we're home this weekend- yay!)

10.26.2011

I agree with Sam

In college I participated in a campaign called "I agree with Sam."  It started at the beginning of the week and on Monday and Tuesday about 200 people in our ministry walked around with bright blue shirts on that said "I agree with Sam."  If people asked us about it, we told them who Sam was and why we agreed with him.
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On Wednesday an article came out in the newspaper that explained line by line what Sam believed.  Sam believed in Jesus Christ and in what the Bible said.

Can I just be honest and tell you I wasn't thrilled to wear my "I agree with Sam" shirt for the rest of the week?

Ridiculous I know, but people were irate.  People started Facebook hate groups about it. My religion class discussed the campaign the rest of the week.  A couple students on campus even started their own group and made their own shirts that said "I agree with Leslie" (I can't remember the exact name).  Leslie turned out to be a Lesbian who loved everyone and was tolerant of all religions unlike Christianity.

The height of my persecution- getting yelled at by a passing car.

I know, that last statement may seem ridiculous...  most people wouldn't even call that persecution, but honestly being apart of that campaign was a pretty life changing experience for me.  Being the people pleaser that I am, I really struggled with being called judgmental, intolerant, unloving and being labeled in many other ways by wearing my blue "I agree with Sam" shirt.  

Recently I've been reading a lot about persecution.  Not about current persecution, but about persecution back in the 200's.  Did you know that people were RUNNING in line to be killed and tortured?  It was considered a privilege to suffer and die for your Christian faith.  An apologist from the 200's, Tertullian, said the famous line "The blood of martyrs is the seed of the church."

Lina in our Bible study brought up a great quote by John Macarthur regarding persecution in our current time.  Persecution is much more subtle, it attacks our egos and pride.

"Today, Satan usually directs persecution not to a person's physical body, but to his ego. He focuses on pride, the desire for acceptance, or the desire for status. That's very effective. Satan doesn't often threaten a Christian by saying, "If you witness, I'll cut your head off." He threatens a believer by saying, "If you witness, you might lose your job, your status--or someone might think you are strange." The techniques Satan uses today have a tremendous effect in a subtle way. He has found that it is very effective to kill the church by making it complacent, indolent, fat, rich, and socially oriented. The church has watered down its theology to accommodate the world. That is a more successful form of persecution than having all Christians boiled in oil!"

I couldn't write down this information fast enough.  Not only do I believe this is true today, it is 100% true in my life.  I don't want people to judge me.  I don't want people to think less of me because of what I believe.  I want liking Jesus to be cool.  I don't want to have to tell people that I believe in heaven and hell and that Jesus is the way to heaven.  I don't want to make people mad. 

But, I also don't want to live this wishy washy life where I stand for nothing.  Where I'm constantly worried about what people will think of me.  I don't want to hold back from telling people about the Gospel that radically changes lives.  Jesus' life is real.  His resurrection is real.  And His power in our lives is real.  Knowing Jesus is the best thing that ever happened to me and the best thing that has ever happened to anyone I know.  But in this day and age- where truth is lost, tolerance is honored, and "do what you feel is right for you," is told to everyone, Christianity gets shunned.

My days living on a college campus are long gone and it would not be appropriate in my office to wear a bright blue T shirt that says "I agree with Sam."  But I often think about that campaign and how quickly I became ashamed of that T Shirt because of the opinion of others.  How I am praying that the persecution of the 21st century wouldn't make me an ineffective minister of the Gospel.

10.24.2011

Family Time!

This past weekend we drove down to West Lafayette to hang out with my brother, his wife Holly, and my mom! My dad sadly had a last minute trip to Prague for work so he couldn't be there :( We were bummed he had to miss.  

The weekend started off on Friday where we caught up until LATE into the night. Then the next day we tailgated outside Purdue's stadium with Holly's family, then got to watch the game! My mom and I sat next to the band for the first half then we sat by Jon and Dan the second half.  We were SO thankful that the Itin's let us use their tickets!  

Then we looked through 1600 of Jon and Holly's wedding pictures.  I have no idea how they are going to pick the best ones- there were SO many! Then we hung out at Bruno's and walked around Purdue's campus the next day.  It was really nice to hang out with our family :)  I cannot believe the next time we'll see them is Thanksgiving! Are the holidays seriously coming up that fast!?  

Tailgating with Jon and Holly

Dan and I outside the stadium! (supporting Miami :)

We had some pretty hardcore fans in front of us!

It was their alumni game so it was really fun to watch all the dancers and band members come back!


This lady had to be late 50s or 60s and she was AWESOME!   
Then we visited the stick sculpture on Purdue's campus!




We were having way too much fun


Purdue actually won and played really well! We were not expecting that!
Oh the memories of Hudson High School band.


And we played some Playstation Move in our free time :)

10.21.2011

Lately...

This is what I've been looking at lately:

I have really wanted to make these.  Every time we go to Marianos (our grocery store) they are making them and I get the biggest craving EVER.  This looked like a good recipe.
ummmm how awful would this be if this happened on your wedding day!?  Most brides are just worried about rain...
I love these decorations and the other ones on her site.
How professional and good to these look?  And there's instructions on how to make them :)
Yay for more hair tutorials!
This short description of Heroes Vs. Celebrities was a very good reminder for me seeking to go into ministry. With the large churches we have popping up everywhere, the temptation is HUGE to lean in one direction.

Good quote by Tim Keller on this blog for those who struggle with people pleasing.

Great insight on not wasting the trial you might be enduring.

I DESPERATELY need to read this book. And take notes. Lots of notes.

This has been SO addicting lately.

Lastly, I have all the ingredients to make this.. I just need to sit down and DO IT.

10.20.2011

Roommate's wedding!

This past weekend we drove down to Cincinnati to see my college roommate, Cara, get married!!  Their wedding was so beautiful and she was glowing.  I am so happy and excited for her!  And kind of jealous that she's on her honeymoon right now :)

Also, we made a couple stops around Cincinnati and Indianapolis to meet up with our friends Jamie, Steph, Luke, Brittany, Katie, and Matt!  On the drive home Dan and I were reminiscing about the weekend and couldn't believe that we were only gone from Saturday morning to Sunday night and were able to do all the things we did! We were definitely thankful that we got to see everyone!

They're married!
She was stunning :)
Steph, Katie and I during appetizers
With the bride and groom!
Their beautiful cake
The amazing centerpieces at our table!

First dance .. he actually asked her dance in front of everyone.  So. stinkin'. cute. 
I stole a couple of Steph's pictures off facebook :) 
Jamie and I!
At the ceremony
PS: my midterm is done today!!! YAY! so relieved.

10.18.2011

Hello midterms

Things have gotten pretty quiet around here.  We just got back from our trip to Cincinnati on Sunday night (more on that later) and the studying began.  See, I'm not a history buff, so taking a midterm on Christian History is slightly terrifying for me.  While other people (... Dan ...) can read through notes once and take everything in, I have to read the notes probably close to a 100 times before it all sinks in.  

And, since I can't just sit around for hours and study, I decided to multi task in between.  Yes, it was quite the Monday in the Cinadr apartment.  Scroll below to see my exciting adventures. 

What I stared at for houuurs.
What I hoped to do in between studying... Ironing is never ending around here..
Planning our groceries.. but not making it to the store
Went on a run to give my mind a break..
Was sad to notice that the pool was officially closed :(  Even though the last time we used it was probably in July...
And when Dan came home we went straight to Panera.  (Let's just say he was tired and sick and not in a picture taking mode because he had a lot of studying to do, too haha)